{"id":3321,"date":"2018-03-08T09:55:59","date_gmt":"2018-03-08T09:55:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/types-of-inter-partner-violence-abuse\/"},"modified":"2018-03-08T09:55:59","modified_gmt":"2018-03-08T09:55:59","slug":"types-of-inter-partner-violence-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/types-of-inter-partner-violence-abuse\/","title":{"rendered":"Types of inter-partner violence\/abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Should you find yourself in any of the situations below, you may be in an unhealthy relationship. If it becomes life-threatening, call <\/span><b>112<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> immediately and ask for help, or <\/span><b>0800 500 333<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; the free 24\/7 national line.<\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><b>Physical violence occurs when your partner:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breaks things when he is angry (throws, smashes, hits objects, etc.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pushes, shoves, slaps, bites, hits, strangles, burn you, etc.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abandons you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place and you have to come back home on your own<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scares you by driving aggressively and\/or imprudently<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Threatens or hurts you with weapons<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Makes you leave the house<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hurts your children<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uses physical force in sexual situations, forces you into sexual intercourse<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Locks you inside the house, prevents you to leave by deprivation of liberty<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prevents you from calling the Police or seeking for medical care.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Sexual violence is (when your partner):<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Any forceful sexual act, without your consent<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Verbal advances, allusions, gestures, touches (repeated and non-reciprocal)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sees women as objects and has rigid ideas about the roles of each gender<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wants you to always dress provocatively<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insults you, makes sexual jokes<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forces or manipulates you into having sex with him<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prevents you from moving during sex<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wants you to have sex when you are ill, tired or after he hit\/hurt you <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hurts you with weapons or other objects during sexual intercourse<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involves other people in your sexual activities against your will<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Makes\/manipulates you into prostitution, \u201cfor the family\u2019s sake\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ignores your feelings regarding sex<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marital rape<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Emotional or psychological violence occurs when your partner:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Follows you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Curses, insults, criticizes, ridicules you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Controls you (the way you dress, who you see\/talk to)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Monitors your going out, your calls and the people you see<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does not trust you and is very jealous or possessive<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tries to isolate you from family and\/or friends<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humiliates you in front of his friends<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Punishes you by withdrawing his affection<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Expects you to ask his permission for anything you want to do<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Threatens to hurt you, your children, family, pets <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humiliates you in any way, mocks you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accuses you of cheating <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is jealous towards the people you talk to<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yells at you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Criticizes you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harasses you <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Economic or financial violence occurs when your partner:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forbids you to work<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Excludes you from decisions regarding money<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always tells you he will take care of you and there is no need for you to work<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gives you a limited amount of money every months and gets angry when you need money for justified emergencies<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Makes you humiliate yourself to receive a small amount of money<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humiliates you in front of his friends<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Holds you responsible for any amount of money you spend, sometimes degenerating into physical violence<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does not allow you to work, to find a job<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Controls the couple\u2019s income, refuses to share money with you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deprives you of basic necessities (food, medicine, etc.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forbids you to own\/use joint goods, unequally controls joint goods and resources, refuses to support the family, enforces heavy and harmful works detrimental to your health, including on an underage family member, as well as other similar acts.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Sexual violence occurs when your partner:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isolates you from your family, friends, the community <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forbids you to go to certain places \u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intentionally deprives you of access to information<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Constantly controls you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Makes you ask for\/get permission before you go out<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Spiritual violence occurs when your partner:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Does not allow you to practice your religious beliefs or traditions<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forces you to observe other religions or religious practices<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discredits, mocks, offends your spiritual\/religious faith, practices<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uses your faith and religious practices to manipulate, dominate, control you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forces you to do things which are prohibited in your religion or faith<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Should you find yourself in any of the situations below, you may be in an unhealthy relationship. If it becomes life-threatening, call 112 immediately and ask for help, or 0800 500 333 &#8211; the free 24\/7 national line.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2968,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3321","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3321","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3321"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3321\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2968"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3321"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3321"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aleg-romania.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3321"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}